I wanna recap a scene I had a few weeks ago; recap what led to it, how I felt during it, and why it was so impactful. Before we can do that though, I need to rewind to a couple of years back.
Teee was visiting Atlanta and I had an opportunity to kidnap him for an afternoon. I kept him strapped to a chair in my office while I worked. Nothing special, just some restraints, mitts, a heavy hood and some ear muffs. Afterwards, he spoke very highly of the hood and asked for a link to get one for himself.
Cut back to a few weeks ago. We're hanging out with some other friends, doing various kinky things, and Teee mentions he wants to put the hood on me to return the favor. Of course I oblige him, and even offered to help him set me up in some bondage. I'm a nice guy like that. For this one, I picked my set of Posey waist-to-wrist restraints with locking buckles on the wrist cuffs and the waist strap. The whole assembly was wrapped around a post on the porch, with me positioned on the opposite side of the post from the wrist cuffs & my wrists.
So, with the scene set, let me dive into what made this so extraordinarily fun for me. The two key concepts I want to highlight are minimalism and the vulnerability.
Believe it or not, I'm not a maximalist when it comes to bondage. Make no mistake, I enjoy being stuffed into a sleepsack and immobilized as much as the next kinky fucker, but minimal bondage has its place too. For me, I feel more powerless if I have some degree of movement; still trapped, but deluded into thinking I have some control. The aesthetics can't be overlooked either. The visual of someone struggling to resist giving up an orgasm is delightful, especially if they can move around a bit.
My vulnerability in this scene is what really set it apart for me. Yes, being bound and helpless is already vulnerability, but there's so much more beyond that. I started the scene wearing those tiny yellow shorts. As things progressed, Teee yanked them down to my thighs, exposing me even further (and making me rock hard in the process). With some finagling I was able to wiggle them back up somewhat, but with my hands restrained I was left helplessly exposed. Then they were yanked off completely, rendering any attempts to regain some degree of dignity fruitless. Keeping my clothes on to start the scene gave some degree of plausible deniability to the "role" I had concocted for myself in my head; a recalcitrant jock/athlete/frat bro who doesn't want to acknowledge that he gets turned on by being tied up. Removing that final fabric barrier and whatever (false) sense of security I had reinforces just how powerless I truly am in this situation. This is one of the things I still struggle with when it comes to playing as an inmate.
The scene proceeded for quite a while, the majority of it spent edging me. To say I had blue balls afterwards would be an understatement. To spend that long, that turned on, without cumming was the true torture. Even gently touching my balls afterwards was unbelievably painful. Sadly, like all good things, the scene ended far too soon; it was time to start working on dinner and everyone seemed to be burning out. Frankly I could (and should have) asked to be left there, hooded, helpless, and hard, but I didn't. Shrug. Perhaps if this scene hadn't been impromptu that could have been planned for.
I also need to talk about the hood some more. It's a heavy duty, dual-layer spandex fabric. Tight enough that putting it on isn't too much work, but loose enough that it doesn't crush your face too quickly. You can see some light, but not really enough to be useful. Breathing is a little bit more challenging, like wearing a gas mask with a flow restrictor. There's a seam down the middle that might leave a nice little mark if you wear it long enough. This is, hands-down, the best capture hood I've ever worn. It was made(or distributed?) by Leatherwerks for several years, but they've since stopped carrying it. This is one of my favorite pieces of gear, and it comes with me every time I travel and I use it in almost every scene. I hope LW brings it back at some point, because it's truly wonderful.
Anyway, I hope this provides some insight into what makes me tick. I don't expect everyone to immediately jump to finding the simplest bondage they can for me. There's a wide gamut of scenes I enjoy; this is me outlining one that I feel is relatively uncommon.